I ran the calculation for ethanol and it took me 0.78 mins.

System Specs:

OS: MacOS Monterey 12.5.1
2,6 GHz 6-Core Intel Core i7
32 GB 2667 MHz DDR4
IDE: PyCharm 2022.3.2 (Community Edition)

Software Specs:

Virtual Env: Conda env 
Conda version: 23.1.0
Python version: 3.10.10

In the following code I am directly using the xyz string obtained from rdkit. (The reason is that it is a hassle to install both rdkit and psi4 on the same conda env on OSX. rdkit needs python version <=3.7 and psi4 seems to work well only on 3.10 onwards)

Code:

import time
s = time.time()
mol_psi4 = psi4.geometry('''9

C     -0.887089    0.175064   -0.012535
C      0.460489   -0.515516   -0.046535
O      1.442965    0.307267    0.565572
H     -0.847478    1.127768   -0.550817
H     -1.658782   -0.453327   -0.465842
H     -1.176944    0.403676    1.018306
H      0.768712   -0.724328   -1.075460
H      0.419486   -1.462073    0.500177
H      1.478640    1.141468    0.067135
''')

#optimize geometry before calculating frequencies
psi4.set_options({'reference': 'rhf'})
psi4.optimize('scf/cc-pvdz', dft_functional = 'b3lyp', molecule=mol_psi4)

#calculate vibrational frequencies
scf_e, scf_wfn = psi4.frequency('scf/cc-pvdz', molecule=mol_psi4, return_wfn=True)
print('done')

#save and print frequencies + intesity
freq=(scf_wfn.frequency_analysis['omega'].data)
for i in freq:
    print(i)
e = time.time()

print(f'time taken mins: {(e-s)/60}')
print('')
print('Done!!!')

Also here are the output frequencies:

7.507156968262905e-06j
(4.908897302913366e-06+0j)
(1.5197889898678715e-05+0j)
(2.9472406989666606e-05+0j)
(3.222627049809006e-05+0j)
(4.2094538779691455e-05+0j)
(401.17046333897605+0j)
(462.0977321879201+0j)
(688.388935344985+0j)
(908.0756382425054+0j)
(951.6293253661514+0j)
(1133.4970378368564+0j)
(1195.0895426135098+0j)
(1238.377261101374+0j)
(1403.076854517634+0j)
(1506.414762164892+0j)
(1537.260320704411+0j)
(1574.0259056577736+0j)
(1596.5805492658997+0j)
(1604.014633238946+0j)
(1637.0354072816572+0j)
(3036.6416405029995+0j)
(3081.9122987732476+0j)
(3124.28961913401+0j)
(3149.4983929335085+0j)
(3168.1054762068184+0j)
(3824.5089839751754+0j)