You have run into the eternal conundrum of quantum chemistry I'm afraid, so no magic bullet. That being said, there are definitely some things I would try:
Reduce your basis set
I would second the opinion of wzkchem5 that keeping the hybrid functional is more important here than the basis set size. For the metal, triple zeta makes sense. For everything else, I would reduce to double zeta. For the prediction of electronic properties of organometallic complexes, it's still fairly common to use B3LYP with LANL2DZ on the metal (with ECPs) and 6-31+G** on everything else, which I think must go back to Yang et al. from 2009. I don't think you need to stick to that exact choice of functional/basis set, but something of equivalent size from the def2 family would make sense.
Because the metal-ligand bonding is often quite long range, it's probably a good idea to keep the diffuse functions. For the organic atoms, either ma-def2-SVP or def2-SVPD would be a good starting point. For the metal, def2-TZVP is probably fine. Make sure to benchmark your results against some higher order calculation or experimental data before committing of course.
Reduce your molecule
Hard to say for sure without knowing the structure, but you may be able to remove parts of the molecule without affecting the results. Methyls, tert-butyl groups and long alkyl chains often have little impact on the excited states, so can be removed (replaced with H). The major exception is if the alkyl group is responsible for forcing a particular molecular geometry (if sterics are important essentially), in which case the change in geometry can drastically impact the electronic states.
Try accelerated DFT
Orca has support for quite a lot of accelerating approximations that you might be able to take advantage of. Many of them are grouped under the umbrella term 'resolution of the identity' (or sometimes 'density fitting'), and they can result in big speed improvements under the right circumstances. Unfortunately (in a way), RIJCOSX is turned on automatically for hybrid functionals from Orca 5 onwards, so unless you've turned it off you're already benefiting from this speed boost. Might be worth investigating in case there's anything else you can exploit however. Have a look in the manual for RI-DFT.
PBE0+D4/def2-SVP
(H,C,N) anddef2-TZVP
(Cu) along withdef2/J
andGCP(DFT/SVP)
inCPCM(water)
for entire study. I believe that switching todef2-TZVP
for excited states energies, and their optimization with the mixed basis set would not yield actual states predicted by previous step. $\endgroup$