I'll try to be as basic as I can in regard to explaining the stuff youve posted.
From what I read online, spin-orbit coupling is how the angular
momentum of an electron w.r.t. the nucleus interacts with its spin.
Yes, and there are two types interactions Russell Saunders coupling(LS coupling) and the j-j coupling. The electron has an orbital angular momentum(let's call it L) as it revolves around the nuclei and a spin angular momentum (Let's call it S) (This is where the relativistic stuff comes in !!. The spin is not a natural consequence of the Schrodinger equation, it's a consequence of the relativistic Dirac equation)
LS coupling: This happens when the L and S of an individual electron interact strongly with the L and S of another electron respectively (i.e, L1 of electron 1 interacts with L2 of electron 2 and S1 & S2 does the same thing. But here L1 and S1 wont interact strongly). Then the total L and the total S interacts to give you the J value (which is the total angular momentum).
J-J coupling: Here the L1 and S1 of electron 1 interact to give you j1 and then the j1, j2, j3.. etc of electrons 1 ,2 ,3 respectively interact together to give you the total J value. In such cases, the total L and the total S are not explicitly mentioned.
The word 'relativistic' came up every time.
Thats because the spin is a relativistic concept as its obtained from the Dirac equation.
What is spin orbit coupling (soc) and what does soc strength mean?
You could think of SOC as the interaction of the particles spin with its motion in the presence of a potential. And about SOC strength a rough estimate would be the atomic number of the element.
$$ \textrm{soc}\:\textrm{strength} \; \alpha \; Z^{4} $$
That's why SOC is mostly seen in heavy elements.
\begin{equation}
\textrm{soc}\:\textrm{strength} = \textrm{DoS}_{(\textrm{spin-up})_{E_F}} -\: \textrm{DoS}_{(\textrm{spin-down})_{E_F}}
\end{equation}
I'm not entirely sure about this, so I'm not going to comment on this.
Another method :
You can study SOC if you could simulate the Electron paramagnetic resonance(EPR) spectra.
If the EPR spectra can be simulated. Then we can extract important Hamiltonian parameters such as D and E which are the zero-field splitting terms.
D and E quantify the extent of zero-field splitting.
$$ \zeta = \; \textrm{spin orbit coupling constant} $$
$$ D = \frac{\zeta}{6[g_{zz} - \frac{1}{2(g_{xx} + g_{yy})}]} $$
$$ E = \frac{\zeta}{12(g_{xx}-g_{yy})} $$
Thus, EPR spectra can be used to extract the spin-orbit coupling parameter provided that your material is EPR active